Reasons To Go On Dutch

WHEN you are out on dates with your guy(or your girl), have you ever experience etiquette dilemmas on who picks up for the check?

As most articles these days had stated that there's no longer any chivalry that would come by and make you their queen. A guy that pays for every bill when you're out on a date with definitely deserves to get a plus point! So, guys like this are definitely meant to be kept. However, this does not mean that us as girls should always expect this out from them. In this day of era, talks on guys and girls should be treated equally has been brought up countless of times. So, in such case, why should guys only pay the bills when they're out on a date?


Yes, some guys do offer to pay or all the best insist on paying those bills but as a girl, we should have some decency to show that we are capable of getting the things we want by ourselves and we do not need to depend on them for it. Most guys actually crave for girls who are independent and they respect such girls more. "I find it a turn off whenever a girl just sits there and expects me to pay every bill", says Nigel. It does not make us stupid if we do reject such offers, it just makes the guy appreciate you more because he knows that you are not easily bought over with goods.


Dating scenes now starts from as young as the age of 13 years old or maybe even 11. If both are at the young love romance stage where most often people label it as the puppy love stage, both are definitely not working at all! Even if you are both out of the high school scene and currently studying in college, neither of you would have a stable income to support "the love of your life". Most guys still do pay for the bill as they find it a manly thing to do but it does not justify anything if the guy is showering you with all his pocket money as he should not be supporting you just yet! It is oh, so romantic that he pays for everything at such a young age, but this just makes every 'present' no longer carries any special means to it. We girls will end up being dependent and will only contribute to a higher expectations that would only kill the relationship.



All in all, relationship is a two-way thing. If he loves you, he would want to be your man. And if you do too, you would care about it. So, talk it out with your guy and decide on a paying plan. 'Go Dutch' is always the best choice at the young age of love.To take your relationship to a whole new level and rather than sitting down there like a dumbo waiting for the guy to make the move of paying the bill. Why don't you take up the role and enlighten him. Because at the end of the day, if you really and truly love someone, you would not want to leech the hell out on his wallet. =)